Many of us have lived under a particular kind of leadership hierarchy. One rooted more in fear than in trust.
It’s the kind where leadership exists at a distance. Senior leaders sit high above, access is limited, and authority flows downward through control. Decisions come from an ivory tower, and relationships are secondary to power. This model of fear-based leadership creates a clear gap between those at the top and everyone else.
I think of this as Old Testament hierarchy.
In the Old Testament, God was often experienced as distant and awe-inspiring. He was powerful, righteous, and sometimes frightening. Access to God was limited. Only a select few could enter God’s presence, while everyone else relied on intermediaries.
This isn’t a theological critique. It’s a reflection on how human systems often mirror the models of authority we internalize, especially in organizations, relationships, and institutions.
The New Testament offers a radically different model of hierarchy.
God comes down. God walks among people. Leadership becomes relational instead of removed. Love replaces fear. Grace replaces punishment. Access is no longer restricted. It’s shared.
That same shift shows up in organizational culture and leadership today.
What I’d call New Testament hierarchy doesn’t eliminate structure or authority. Instead, it transforms how power is held. Leadership is present, accessible, and grounded in relationship. This is relationship-centered leadership: authority exercised through trust, compassion, and proximity rather than distance.
In organizations that operate this way, leadership doesn’t sit apart. It walks alongside. The message becomes clear: “We’re with you every step of the way.” And when that posture is lived out consistently, it changes everything.
This kind of people-centered leadership doesn’t rely on fear to motivate. It builds trust over time. It recognizes that hierarchy can exist without becoming oppressive. That leadership presence matters more than positional power.
The contrast is simple, but profound:
Leadership rooted in fear versus leadership rooted in love.
This dynamic isn’t limited to the workplace. It shows up in personal relationships as well.
If you’ve experienced an abusive, toxic, or fear-based “Old Testament” relationship, stepping into a New Testament relationship — one marked by care, accessibility, and grace — can feel unsettling. When you’re used to control or conditional approval, love can feel suspicious. Trust can feel risky.
But over time, leadership through trust — whether from a partner, a manager, or an organization — proves itself. Consistency replaces anxiety. Presence replaces fear. And slowly, love wins.
This reflection feels especially meaningful for me right now as I transition from a production-oriented marketing role into work more deeply centered on people, culture, and care. It feels like a movement from striving to belonging and from performance to presence.
From hierarchy enforced by distance
to hierarchy transformed by relationship.
Once you’ve experienced accessible leadership, at work or in life, it’s hard to unsee the difference. And even harder to accept anything less.
©2026 Lori Ann King
Love what you’re reading? For just $1/ a month (or even $5 or $10/month), you can help me cover my costs and keep the words coming! Contribute now.
